2011年11月30日 星期三

Is Marriage the Tomb of Love ?

Is Marriage the Tomb of Love ?
As the proverb saying, marriage is the tomb of love, this sentence is correct or not, this time last year I just out of the tomb of love, the Chinese have a saying : men fear most is the wrong industry, and the women are most afraid of to marrying wrong husband, this saying is very appropriate to me.


Before I married, I was the beloved daughter of parents , Although I am independent but do not pamper. My parents are very affectionate with each other, and also pay attention to the child's upbringing, so they taught us, we should remember that to be upright, do not to be particular about trifle .

More conservative over the years, so women do not have more chance , and of ethical constraints, It will not be promiscuous friend, until they are married just to find both sides there are too many differences in life, I’m regret marriage, at the time I got marriage is not early, but in those days, if more then 30 years old, do not get married, some people , will look at you with strange eyes, so I married.

I just remember in the 10 years of marriage, my life's not good, Because my husband is very concerned about the money , he is male chauvinism, and very relatively stingy to me, he had an affaire last year, so we are divorced, I did not asked him alimony, just hope he burden of two children's school fees, and I also transferred my restaurant to him,. Many of my friends said I was a fool, I only know that by the time I’m very upset, and just want to leave him away, then get a good peace.

So it’s really for me - marriage is the tomb of love.

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