I am Envy The Scene
The huang huagang 72 martyrs one of them Mr. Lin Juemin林覺民,with his wife farewell letter, some reads『吾嘗語曰:「與其使我先死也,無寧汝先吾而死。」吾之意,蓋謂以汝之弱, 必不能禁(忍受)失吾之悲。吾先死,留苦與汝, 吾心不忍,故寧請汝先死,吾擔悲也。』.The Lin Juemin He told his wife, he hope his wife die before him, because he feared his wife, fragile and unable to withstand the pain of losing her husband, so he hoped that when the death day comes, he would want he to die after his wife and the pain left him to endure and bear.
Modern social is open, on love and family values by many people the concept is not correct, increasingly high rate of divorce, between husband and wife, less communication, less respect for each other. We should learn more from the old couple.
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