2012年4月11日 星期三

I am Envy The Scene


I am Envy The Scene

Many years ago, I went to visit cousin, who was live in the United States. Once to the beach in California, I see a lot of the old couple on the beach, They hand in hand, side by side to go for a walk in the sunset, one another exudes caring eyes on the other side, what a beautiful picture. In our life, if you can find a life partner who love you always, can allow you to rely on, and sharing the joys and sorrows of life, then looking at each other slowly getting old, this is a wonderful thing.

The huang huagang 72 martyrs one of them Mr. Lin Juemin林覺民,with his wife farewell letter, some reads『吾嘗語曰:「與其使我先死也,無寧汝先吾而死。」吾之意,蓋謂以汝之弱, 必不能禁(忍受)失吾之悲。吾先死,留苦與汝, 吾心不忍,故寧請汝先死,吾擔悲也。』.The Lin Juemin He told his wife, he hope his wife die before him, because he feared his wife, fragile and unable to withstand the pain of losing her husband, so he hoped that when the death day comes, he would want he to die after his wife and the pain left him to endure and bear.

Modern social is open, on love and family values by many people the concept is not correct, increasingly high rate of divorce, between husband and wife, less communication, less respect for each other. We should learn more from the old couple.

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